The Five “Female” Orgasms
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I would like to acknowledge that not all women have vulvas, and not all vulva owners are women. This article is based on the general science behind the bodies labelled female at birth.
Did you know “female” bodies have five points on their body that when stimulated can lead to orgasm?
This isn’t to say you’re going to start squirting uncontrollably from rubbing your nipples, I mean you could, but every ones bodies are different and what works for some may not work for others, but you don’t know unless you try, right?
I will go more in depth on each point soon with tips, tricks and toys but until then lets do a simple run down of the pleasure points.
Nipples –
Men and women have roughly the same amount of nerve endings in their nipples and when stimulated they send the same signals to the brain as genital stimulation, creating and releasing oxytocin. Isn’t that crazy?!
Every time I have had sex there has been some kind of nipple play, what can I say? People love my bewbz. But I suggest exploring on your own or dedicating some foreplay to the breast and nipples. Start with massaging around the breast tissue and then move on to nipple stimulation like rubbing and pinching. If you’re playing with a partner you can lick, suck, nibble and bite.
Illustration Claire Joines
Clitoris –
Hello, yes! We (should) all know and love this little beacon of pleasure considering a lot of women can’t climax without stimulating their clitoris. The clit is embryologically made up of the same tissue as the glans of the penis but is filled with double the amount of nerves. DOUBLE! Also like the penis, when aroused the clitoris fills with blood and hardens, what some don’t know is that the clit is like a magical ice berg. You only see the tip, but the clit is actually shaped like a wishbone and runs all the way to either side of the vaginal opening. Even when participating in anal play, the legs of the clitoris can be indirectly stimulated.
You might already know what you like when it comes to clitoral stimulation (I sure do) but consistent speed, pressure and movement is key.
The G Spot –
We have all heard of it, it definitely is real, yet some question its existence. It’s the Bigfoot of the body…
imagine how hard it would be to find lady bigfoots gspot…
The g spot is hard to pin point because it isn’t in a set place, like all clits are different but at least we know where it is. To find your gspot insert your finger and feel around the front wall of the vagina (towards the mons pubis) feeling for a “walnut” like texture.
Cervix –
I had a traumatic experience having a biopsy taken of my cervix so thinking about stimulating it makes me feel weird in the tum. But that’s my biz. Some love having their cervix stimulated. To find it, you’re going to have to go deep. Feel for a “donut” like shape and most importantly – be gentle! Strokes and rubs not pokes and prods.
Illustration Ella Byworth
Anal –
Anal play isn’t all about penetration, licking and rubbing are greatly underrated in my opinion. Penetration isn’t for everybody and should be taken lightly, there are some important things you should know before going into anal play.
When participating in anal play remember to ease into it slowly and use tons of lubricant. Wearing anal beads or plugs can add intensity, and I’ve heard pulling them out at the moment of climax is insane (yet to try but its high on my list – will report back).
Again, all bodies are different, what work for others might not work for you and that is ok.
