2022: The Year I Began Romanticising Lobotomies

This year has been absolutely cooked.

I had so many big ideas, big plans, things were coming together, for sex talk and for my house, I was full of optimism. Then I was consumed by stress, health problems followed, and then incomprehensible loss. I have new ticks, new triggers, have experienced multiple anxiety AND panic attacks and at one point I legitimately googled scurvy symptoms because I realised the only thing I had been able to depression cook for 3 weeks was pasta.  

But, because of therapy (and meds)(…and broccoli), not only was I able to keep my head above water when things were bad, when things were good, I actually kind of thrived. While all of my big ideas and plans for sex talk had to take the back seat, I did accomplish a lot around my house and I have to be proud of myself for that.

So, what are my plans for 2023?

For sex talk, I have almost everything I planned for this year but wasn’t able to execute out of anxiety and exhaustion. Lots of ‘Doing It With Jordan’ and articles about kink. My goal is post more than once.

A teaser for the next DIWJ – I’ve got tarps at the ready.  

I wish you all a very happy and safe holiday season, whether that’s Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Diwali, Christmas or Chinese New Year going into Feb.

All of the love I am able to give, J xoxo